Strip the kale from its stem
Wash the spinach and kale
Roughly chop the onion
Blanch the kale and spinach in boiling water for 30 seconds, this keeps its green color and prevents is from looking brown
Transfer to a bowl of ice water
When cooled strain the greens and squeeze out all the excess water
Melt the butter in a saucepan
Add the onions and some salt and pepper
Cook over medium-low heat until onions are translucent and caramelized (25-30 minutes)
Roughly chop the drained greens and set aside
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F
In a bowl mix together the cream, milk, nutmeg, cayenne, and lemon zest (set aside)
When the onions are caramelized add in the flour stirring
Add in the wine stirring well and increase the heat to medium
Add in the cream mixture and let simmer for 2-3 minutes stirring often
Add in 3/4 of the parmesan cheese reserving 1/4 for the top
Place the greens in a casserole dish open and release them from their squeezed state, no one wants to eat a wadded ball of greens
Pour the creamy mixture over the greens and stir with a wooden spoon or rubber spatula so you don't scratch your casserole dish
Sprinkle the remaining cheese on top add salt and pepper to taste
Bake covered for 30 minutes then uncover for another 10 -15 minutes until brown on top